Aggressive child

Working with an aggressive child is always individual and necessarily begins with finding out the causes of aggression. Is the child trying to assert his rights? Or is he just fighting for attention? Or does he behave like close adults? Who or what is the aggression directed at? All at once or just one person? Is the child always and everywhere aggressive or in certain situations/places/times? . . . . There are a lot of questions, but they must be answered in an attempt to cope with children's anger.
From her own practice: the girl simply fell into fits of rage when her mother forbade something. My mother also got hurt (literally to the point of bruises), and the toys were broken. What's here? A way of manipulating parents. It was easier for Mom to make concessions than to explain why it was "impossible". The child is used to the fact that this is how you can get your way. Another case: the boy often "for no reason" threw his fists at other children. Later it turned out that he began to behave like this after the birth of his younger brother.
An attempt to draw attention to yourself? Sure. Mom throws everything, runs to separate the children, scold ... has the goal been achieved? Yes. By what means? Those that the child has repeatedly tested in practice… There can be only one recommendation here: to give the child POSITIVE attention – to praise, encourage, do something with him, help. Then there will be no need for any attention. Of course, aggression is not only a way of manipulation. Children sometimes just get angry, sincerely, just like us adults. If the child is angry and breaks everything around, do not scold him for it. Feelings cannot be scolded, once they have arisen, then there are reasons for that. We don't scold boys for not liking to play with dolls, do we? Another thing is the way of expressing feelings. A child can be taught "cultural" means of expressing anger. For example, we often use an "angry pillow" in the classroom, we have come up with a kind of "spell" - "away with the zlinki". Children madly like to beat the pillow with all their might, chasing away the "zlinki". We explain: you can't beat others, because it hurts, it's a pity to break toys (they even played a whole play about a broken toy).
And a pillow is possible. Just a pillow. And only when someone is really angry. By the way, many parents at home also "get" such an object – a punching bag, for example. And if there is a conflict, first they send the child to "let off steam", and then they talk calmly. THEY DEFINITELY TALK! Las promociones de bienvenida son una herramienta muy utilizada por las casas de apuesta para agradecer la preferencia y atraer nuevos usuarios. 1xbet reconoce este recurso ofreciendo opciones para los aficionados a las apuestas deportivas y a los juegos de casino. Dos beneficios destacan como código promocional 1xBet de bienvenida, el bono de 1er depósito para casino y el de deportes.También puedes obtener apuestas gratis en tu cumpleaños o freebets en la tienda de promociones. Solo debes buscar la oferta asociada y canjear los puntos que te indique para disponer del beneficio.

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